How to incorporate a fun location or activity to your engagement session

If you’re reading this - CONGRATS!! That likely means you are recently engaged and are brainstorming fun ideas for your engagement shoot. 🥳💍

There are so many ways to celebrate this time in your life - some folks simply want some nice photos of themselves with their partner. Nothing wild, just something pretty. And there’s nothing wrong with that! You can never have too many pretty photos of when you’re young and in-love, especially since most of our photo collections are just a phone full of poorly-lit selfies.

Detail image of woman's engagement ring in Minneapolis, Minnesota

But I like to encourage couples to have a little fun with their engagement session! The wedding photos to come will be beautiful, no doubt. But these - these photos will show the real YOU. The you you both are right now, on a weeknight. The vibe and style you had at this point in time.

In today’s world, where images are in surplus and everything is ‘content’, it can be tricky to think of a new idea. But the idea doesn’t have to be completely new, as long as it feels special to you! The goal is to create a session that feels perfect for your relationship.


There are a couple good starting points to help brainstorm what might bring that unique spin to your engagement shoot:

1. What location is special to you?

Tying in a location that is special to you and your partner is a great place to start! This could be any range of places - from a restaurant or bar, to a park, a theater, or maybe even your own home!

 

~ Chris and Sam chose to start their engagement session with cocktails at WA Frost, a local St. Paul restaurant. Not only was this the location of their first date, but this was the exact table they sat at! 🥂 To top it off - they brought maximum style points with Sam in a dusty pink suit coat that matched the pink design in Chris’ sequins dress.

 
 
Couple wearing pink cheers cocktails at WA Frost in Saint Paul, Minnesota
 
Man and woman eat burgers at Matt's Bar in Minneapolis, Minnesota

~Leeja and Charlie’s goal for their engagement session, first and foremost, was to enjoy a couple Juicy Lucy burgers at Minneapolis-staple Matt’s Bar. Fun, casual, and perfectly them - they didn’t want to take things too seriously, and also give a nod to a legendary MN dive bar.

 

~ Beside this being one of this couple’s favorite date spots, Wylie proposed to Lindsey at this very place - the Minneapolis Institute of Art (or MIA, if you’re local). The couple met in college through the theater program, so art plays a huge role in their lives and in their relationship.

*Don’t forget to look into whether your desired location requires a permit to shoot there! Many museums will require one, and you’ll need to call at least a few weeks in advance. But these locations are always beautiful and always worth it!

 

~ Katie and Greg’s whole wedding vibe was St. Paul centered! They planned to get married in a St. Paul city park and hold their reception at a local brewery. So, of course, it only made sense for their engagement session to be at their favorite swanky little local bar - the Emerald Lounge. Plus, if you’ve got some nerves going into a photoshoot - kicking it off with an old fashioned is never a bad idea! 🥃

Man and woman sit with cocktails in green booth at Emerald Lounge in Saint Paul, Minnesota
Two men embrace at the Landmark Center in Saint Paul, Minnesota where they danced in high school
 

~ Though they wouldn’t end up dating until many years later - Michael and Will both attended a performing arts high school located within the Landmark Center in downtown St. Paul! A place that tied them together long before they ever dreamed of being married.

If you want to shoot at a location that is a place of business (ie restaurant, bar) - it’s best practice to call and check in ahead with them! They are usually very accommodating, often sharing tips on when might be the best time to come in and shoot (sometimes even allowing you to come in outside of their open hours).

So be sure to make a plan with your photographer on contacting your location ahead of shoot-time!


If you can’t think of a specific location that feels perfect, don’t stress! The next thing to think about is:

2. What is something you love to DO together?

What activity brings joy to you and your partner? A photoshoot doesn’t have to be all smiling and looking at the camera - we love a little action and movement! Add a little fun to the session!

Male and female couple hold hands near campfire as they sip cocktails at picnic
 

~ Abby and Gary knew that they wanted to incorporate their love for the outdoors and camping in their session! So we packed up a picnic (complete with cocktails and charcuterie), a cribbage board, and built ourselves a campfire! 🔥 What’s more Minnesotan than that??

 

~ Maria and Ben are lovers of all things games. Board games, deck-building games, you name it. So it only made sense to shoot their engagement session at the local arcade Can Can Wonderland. 🕹️ Complete with classic arcade games, pinball machines, and mini-golf - it’s the perfect location for any game-lover!

Man and woman laugh playing pinball arcade game in Minnesota
Woman smiles at camera while fiancé looks adoringly at her a pizza shop
 

~ Eating pizza and playing board games is a go-to for Nicole and Reggie! So we found the cutest pizza shop in the Twin Cities (rip Fire & Nice…) - they got a cute lunch date out of the deal, and I just got to document it! 🍕

 
 
 

~ Late-night hangs at a diner was one of Quynh and Vikram’s favorite things to do while attending college in Minneapolis. So what better way to celebrate their engagement than sharing a milkshake and a basket of fries at the Nicollet Diner! 🍟🍦

 
Woman feeds man fry at Minneapolis diner
 
Man and woman run up steps reading 'All the world's a stage' at Guthrie Theater in Minneapolis

~ Ever the lovers of live theater - Sarah and McLean chose the Guthrie Theater to be the home for their engagement session. To make things more perfect, the stairs at this local theater were adorned with the Shakespeare quote “All the world’s a stage”.


Moral of the story - your engagement photos can be more than just snapshots outside in a picturesque location.

This is the start of the rest of your life together, make decisions that inspire and excite you. ✨

 

maternity sessions - your way

Let’s talk maternity photos! You might be asking - “What kind of maternity session should I do?” or “What style of maternity shoot is right for me?”

There are so many ways to do it, and it’s my goal as a photographer to make you feel as though we’ve captured this time in a way that’s just as special and unique as the experience itself.

Whether you want to do it solo, or with a partner or your family - it’s your body that’s growing and changing so how you want to document it is entirely up to you. 💕

Here are some options, along with some images from previous sessions, to consider:


in-home -

cozy, intimate

an in-home maternity session has more of a vulnerability to it. these sessions don’t require much as far as outfits, or styling, but really focus on the body and documenting the magic that your body is doing. there is a calm and a tenderness to these sessions.

lifestyle

in-home maternity can also be brighter and feel more like a lifestyle documentation of you in your home! on your own, or with your partner, it can document the space you’ll be bringing your new baby into.


in-studio -

bold, editorial

what your body is doing at this time is magic - so why not treat it like the art it is! an in-studio maternity session can boldly showcase the beauty of your growing babe.

relaxed, lifestyle

an in-studio maternity session can also feel more home-y. maybe you already plan on doing an in-home newborn session and want a different location. this can be your home away from home to capture these months of prepping for your new little one!


outside -

whether it’s somewhere special to you, or simply somewhere pretty

an outdoor maternity session can be as much of an adventure as you want it to be. maybe there’s a place you like to hike that you want to incorporate into this experience, or maybe you’re just a water-baby yourself and feel at home next to a lake. in minnesota, especially, there are no shortage of beautiful outdoor locations to shoot at.

fun options? yes please! -

make it a vibe! let’s go to the fair, let’s lounge by the pool, let’s dress up!


every choice is a good choice - just pick whatever feels most true to you 🌼


in-home newborn - baby R

This session felt like the universe coming together just right where it was supposed to! This couple found me through Lucia (god bless Yess Yoga 🙏🏼), then come to find out we know so many of the same people from the town I grew up! On top of it, they are wonderful creative folk who were just such a breeze to be with while we captured this moment in their lives.

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Yess Yoga [winter 2019]

Back again with my favorite - Yess Yoga Studio. Another round of folks successfully completed their yoga teacher training, courtesy of Lucia. Each one of them unique and a joy to photograph. I will photograph passions and craft til the day I die, and I will never tire of it. Play, create, turn everything into magic!

Mother Medicine

This mother doesn’t want you to have to go into Motherhood alone. She believes YOU should be mothered as you go into this journey. Then, hopefully, with this support you will be able to thrive and feel empowered as you start this new chapter of your life.

Offering an array of in-home services - from acupuncture and cupping, to postpartum massage, vaginal steams, home cooked Ayurvedic meals, and even infant massage - Mother Medicine will be there for you through this transitional time. Because who doesn’t love a little help from Mom?

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